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Episode: 3623
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Title: HPR3623: Internet Security - Child Edition
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Source: https://hub.hackerpublicradio.org/ccdn.php?filename=/eps/hpr3623/hpr3623.mp3
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Transcribed: 2025-10-25 02:21:16
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This is Hacker Public Radio Episode 3,623 for Wednesday 22 June 2022.
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Today's show is entitled, Internet Security Child Edition.
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It is part of the series' privacy and security.
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It is hosted by Lurking Priet and is about 41 minutes long.
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It carries an explicit flag.
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The summary is I have a discussion about Internet Security with our Brady Frost along with
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our sons.
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Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, wherever you are in the world.
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Welcome to another episode of the Stuff Evil Steve doesn't want you to know.
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I'm your host, Lurking Prion.
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Here to guide you through the wonderful fun world of Internet Security.
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So sit back and get ready to wear, I don't know what we're going to do, hey, stand by,
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it'll be fun.
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Welcome to another episode.
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I'm Robert Campbell.
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I'm joined here today by my son, Isaac, say hi, and of course we have Brady and go
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ahead and do the introductions on your side.
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Yeah, this is Brady Frost and my son, Devlin, is with us today.
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Hello.
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Hey, welcome.
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So y'all may be wondering why we have our kids on the show today.
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Well, this is an information security podcast, as we said, this is for regular people.
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So who's more regular than our kids?
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We're going to go ahead, I'm just going to kind of throw out some questions here and just
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kind of get an idea.
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So we'll start on your end, Brady.
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I just want to have your son just kind of give us an idea of what it means to use the
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Internet safely, kind of in his own words.
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Go ahead, Devlin.
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So, basically, you don't tell your parents to say anyone, keep your identity safe, don't
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share anything that's not debris, it's to put it on your own there, and yeah, okay.
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Hello, you, Isaac.
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Basically, anything that reveals your location, keep a secret, don't tell anyone, anything
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that reveals your identity, really just anything private, just do not get that out, I'll
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see you out some problems.
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So, there we go, what are your thoughts on that, Brady?
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I think, you know, and I'll just say that they did not prompt Devlin at all for this
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discussion, and I was pretty impressed with what he said.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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Now, Isaac has a leg up because it has household, there's somebody who streams video game stuff
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and they have people that don't like them, and they have been swatted in the past, so there's
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a little bit of op-sec there when it comes to doing things online, so he's got a little
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bit of a leg up there, but again, yeah, no prompting over here, just straight up, that's
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good.
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I don't want to be telling people where we live.
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We don't want to let people know where we're going.
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This one of the biggest problems I see is people make posts on social media, they're checking
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in in places.
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Great, you just checked it at the airport.
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Now everybody knows that you're not home, or going to be home for a while.
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Why can't you check in like after you're done, like, hey, I went out to dinner or hey,
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I just got back from a trip to Africa.
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Why are you telling people as you're going?
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Oh, great, this person is not going to be in the country for two weeks.
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Let's go have some fun with their house.
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Kids, posting pictures.
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By default, what's included in any picture that you take with any mobile device?
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Do you know?
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I don't need to say anything on your side, Brady?
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Information.
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What kind of information?
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Just stuff like if you're in your house, then you could be showing someone something that
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you're not supposed to.
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If you're outside, I have a certain place, then people know where you are.
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How would, all right.
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So from locations of the picture, but every picture by default has your GPS coordinates
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on the picture.
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It's part of the metadata.
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Anybody can look at that.
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You can download the picture and look at the information and you can get the exact GPS
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coordinates of where that picture was taken.
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So if you think about it, we have kids that are posting pictures of themselves at school
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with exact GPS coordinates, taking pictures from home with exact GPS coordinates, going
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out to places with exact GPS coordinates.
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It's kind of crazy, isn't it?
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Did you know there's predators out there that like literally have maps of children?
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Literally maps.
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I mean, if somebody wants like a blonde hair blue eye girl that's 11 years old and doesn't
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weigh more than 105 pounds, it's just a simple matter of looking through their database
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and then coming through.
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They've got access to all their social media.
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So it's just a matter of, hey, look, here's someone who's sneaking out for a party tonight
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and guess who's not coming home.
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And you know, it's kind of a dark topic, but the U.S. is actually one of the biggest
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countries on earth for slave trade, kind of ironic, isn't it?
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The bastion of freedom and we are one of the biggest countries on the planet that engages
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in human slave trade.
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Not that we do it as a country, but that could.
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Yeah.
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So that brings up the next question is, do either of you guys worry about who you talk
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to on the internet?
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Definitely.
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Well, we elaborate on that.
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Like, if I'm talking to somebody, I really make sure that I do not leak any information
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whatsoever.
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Doesn't matter if they're like a friend or it's like an online friend or just a complete
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stranger.
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I'm not going to leak anything.
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Yeah, you could be friends with an adult who may want to do not great.
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Things.
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So, you really have to be careful and not really let anything slip.
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Yeah, it's really easy to pretend to be something you're not on the internet.
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And you really, unless you actually know the person in real life on the other end, there's
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assumptions being made as to who that entity on the other, that's even assuming that what
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you're talking to is actually a person and not even a bot.
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So, it's kind of crazy.
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So, yeah, talking to people online definitely want to keep your guard up when it comes to
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that.
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You guys, we've kind of beat this one up a little bit.
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Let's go ahead and find something else.
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When you're playing games on the internet, what kind of games do you like to play?
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Whether it's on your phone, your tablet, computer, it doesn't matter what kind of games do
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you like to play?
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Mostly online combat games.
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Okay.
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First person shooter.
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Well, first person shooter is on.
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I like to play Earth Thunder, also like survival games.
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Okay.
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How about over there?
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I mainly just play games on apps that I can trust because there's many games out there
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that can end up taking information.
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Yes, there are a, well, pretty much everything is taking your information.
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It's just a matter of how much information they're taking and what they're doing with
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it.
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So that's a problem, but one of the bigger problems is free games.
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You know, those free game sites that you can go to, those things are littered with
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malware.
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Yeah.
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I mean, just absolutely malware heaven.
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If you go and you play some kind of a free game on the internet, you, you can pretty
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much be sure that your computer just got something.
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Definitely.
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Yeah.
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Now, do you guys have like your own account that your parents set up for you on your computer?
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I do have my own account.
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Okay.
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I'm going to go ahead.
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I use my school accounts.
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Okay.
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Now, do you, I like know if your account is an administrator account or if it's just a user?
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Can you install stuff?
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Yeah.
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Then you're an administrator about on your, if you're using a school account, you're probably
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not an administrator.
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I would hope.
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Definitely not.
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Yeah.
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Well, the problem with Isaac here is he's surfing the internet as an administrator, which
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means that any malware that touches his computer can also run as an administrator.
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Now, I know we've got that thing user access control.
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You can see that pops up.
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Hey, this thing is trying to do this.
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Brady, how hard is that to get around?
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That's really easy.
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But I have to interject here and just say that Devlin is not telling the entire story.
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He asks for a browser games on his mom's computer and his mom's account is an admin.
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And he is more than happy to sit there and play browser games.
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And what does Dad always say, Devlin, about browser games?
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What's the best thing to do?
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No, Dad says no browser games, not the best thing to do.
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And mom will let Devlin use her account and he will go and play browser games when
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Dad is not around.
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Absolutely.
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Look, we're all human.
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I get it.
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Those games are fun, aren't they?
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Yeah.
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Yeah, it's just something to do.
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Pretty much.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Let me go kill some time and see if I can get some malware on my mom's computer.
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Wow.
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Things have changed since I was a kid.
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We used to go out and have BB gun wars.
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Well, that's kind of crazy.
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How about you, Brady?
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Another question?
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Yeah, what's that?
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Or do you want me to ask a question?
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Which one?
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I asked the last one.
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All right.
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Do you have either one of you played Roblox?
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Yes.
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Once before.
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Once, huh?
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What about Fortnite?
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Bomb good.
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That one loves Fortnite.
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He plays when he's not supposed to.
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They're out the bad news about those two.
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So Fortnite is a little different, but Roblox is definitely.
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It's a game marketplace.
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It's designed for kids, but abused by adults.
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A lot of kids end up playing with adults, and they don't even know that they're playing with adults,
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because everybody's got the same kind of characters.
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Well, and you can create your own little game rooms, can't you?
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Yes.
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Yes.
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Did you know that there's game rooms where there is adult stuff going on inside those rooms?
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Everlet.
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Yeah.
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And yeah, they find them and they shut them down, but how hard is it to just start up another one?
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Yeah.
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It's all over the place.
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So we've got that problem going on, and there's also the problem that those platforms are filled with child predators,
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because it's so easy to communicate with kids, and their guard is down because they're playing something that they think is just for kids with other kids.
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Which makes them perfect targets.
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Not good, but yeah, those sex rooms in there, and worse.
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So definitely something to keep in mind.
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Roblox has a whole bunch of that.
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Kind of crazy, isn't it?
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Yeah, and I think this is a shout out to the parents out there as well.
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A lot of times I see kids get the phones, and they can be occupied for a stretch of time.
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But you have to be careful because all of these apps that are out there and available and they're free to get playing,
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and then get in there and get immersed, and they're not in your hair.
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Other people have access to your kids.
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If your kids aren't paying attention to you, they're paying attention to someone else.
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And that's the part that we tend to forget.
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And how many parents actually go to check and see what games they're playing?
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Do they actually know anything about these games?
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Do they actually look and see what they're doing in these games, who they're talking to?
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What kind of capabilities are there?
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Can those things be disabled?
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And, you know, we talked about malware.
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Now, I know that people are going to say, oh, but I've got an Apple, so I'm safe.
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Isn't that why you buy Apple?
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You'll hear it a lot.
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Yeah, the largest growing sector for malware last year and the year before.
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Is Apple?
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Or malware is being created for Apple than Windows.
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Roll that around your head for a minute, parents.
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And I think this goes back to the illusion of security we were talking about in a previous episode.
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Because if you think you're safe, you're actually less safe because you're not being as vigilant.
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Absolutely. You put your guard down.
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When you get a product and you're told that it's safe or you're playing a game and you think that it's safe,
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you let your guard down in the way that you use it.
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And that makes you vulnerable.
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And everyone who uses your device vulnerable.
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And that's kind of the thing is realizing that when we use the internet,
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we have to be vigilant all the time.
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And it's not just, okay, well, you know, I'm just doing something here.
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You got to think about it all the time.
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And the problem is, is the internet is something that is deceptively safe.
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But Brady, I mean you and I both work in information security,
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how safe would you rate the internet?
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It is not safe.
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You know, whenever I'm teaching a class, I always tell my students,
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you guys can go ahead and do this.
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So imagine that you go ahead and close your eyes.
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Close your eyes.
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Now imagine that you are on a bicycle.
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Naked.
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Riding down the middle of the freeway.
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Naked in a parade.
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Naked on a bicycle.
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Rolling down a freeway with all of these cars and trucks coming at you going past you.
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That doesn't sound very safe, does it?
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Out of all.
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It's not safe and you are that exposed.
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People don't realize that your information can all be captured.
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People don't realize that it's very easy for me to go into Starbucks
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and capture their information as they're doing something.
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And I can replay videos that they watch.
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I can recreate web sessions.
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I can reconstruct emails.
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It's kind of nuts.
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And people don't realize that.
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That information is very vulnerable.
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And even if you think that the information is encrypted, is it?
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You know, that's what are you connected to?
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And is the thing that you're connected to?
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A proxy that is breaking the connection.
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I'm creating a new connection.
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I imagine that you don't want to know what a proxy is, do you?
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Are there any sites at school that you can't get to from the schools?
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Are there ways to get to those sites?
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Not that I've found.
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Not that I've tried.
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Not that you've tried.
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That's a good answer.
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Well, I'm going to tell you guys this because you're going to come across it,
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especially as you start moving toward, you know, high school.
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There's this thing called proxies.
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So let's say that your school has, what does use Facebook as an example?
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Facebook is blocked.
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You can't go to Facebook.
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But you really want to go to Facebook because like you want to see what's going on.
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Well, there's all these different sites out there that are proxies.
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And what does say like proxy.com?
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Well, your administrator has Facebook.com block, right?
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Is proxy.com blocked?
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Probably not.
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So you make a connection to proxy.com.
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Proxy.com creates a new connection from their servers to Facebook.
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So all your firewall at your school sees is this connection to proxy.com.
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You, on the other hand, have a full connection to Facebook.
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The problem is, in order for proxy.com to create that new connection,
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the encryption stops at their server and starts with the new connection,
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which means that everything that goes through their server is in plaintext,
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including your credentials that you use to log in.
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Kind of crazy, isn't it?
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And then a bigger bad thing, guys.
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Horrible.
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And the problem is, kids use these things all the time.
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And proxies go up all the, like trying to block proxies is like playing whack-a-mole.
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They just, they spin up so many every single day.
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And the problem is, is they make sure that kids know about them,
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because they know that kids use them.
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And here's all these kids using proxies.
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And a lot of them are not to be trusted.
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So you've got people that are setting up proxies, capturing kids,
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log in information to all of their accounts.
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So now, not only do they have your pictures and know where you live,
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but now they have access to all of your social media accounts.
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And whatever else you've logged in using that proxy.
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That's kind of crazy, isn't it?
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But, you know, I mean, this is one of those things that we don't really tell people
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what the actual dangers are when you use the internet.
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We just find out that we can do something.
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Hey, look, I can get to Facebook, and that's as far as we go with it.
|
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Instead of stopping to ask ourselves, wait a minute.
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If I got around a restriction to get there,
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what happened to my traffic?
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And nobody stops to think about that.
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They just want to do something.
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And as long as the result is there, then they're happy with it.
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Without realizing that the result may have come at a much higher cost
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than they would have been wanting to pay.
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I think that's a really interesting example.
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And I think we need to kind of break that down for a second.
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Because it's worth highlighting the feeling of getting around those school restrictions.
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Because that's what you guys get.
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It's what you're going to see.
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Your friends are going to be like, oh, check it out.
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I can log into this.
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And you're going to say, I can't.
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How'd you do it?
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But the real question is, if they're connecting to something
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that is helping them bypass the rules,
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what is the benefit for that site?
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Nobody rides for free.
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If it's free, then you must be...
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You must be the product.
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The product.
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They are selling you.
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And it could be just, you know, they're selling your user information.
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Or it could be something much worse.
|
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But the problem is, is how do you know?
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And how do you know if that site has been hacked by someone else?
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What if it is the legitimate proxy run by a legitimate company?
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But they've been compromised by a bad hacker
|
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who now has complete access to all the traffic that goes through that proxy.
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And it's crazy.
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Anything else you want to throw in on that, Brady?
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You know, I don't want to park on it too much.
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Old people, they don't like they hate the internet.
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And they hate these games.
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And they hate the Fortnite's.
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But really, we've been around for a while.
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And it's about recognizing the dangers.
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Because I get it.
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Fortnite is fun.
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And Fortnite could be safe.
|
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But it could also be very dangerous.
|
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Do you remember lawn darts?
|
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Yes.
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So go ahead and describe for our audience what lawn darts were.
|
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So lawn darts are like the actual darts.
|
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But instead of throwing these darts at a dart board,
|
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take that dart and explode it by about 10 times.
|
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Right?
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Yeah.
|
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So you've got a dart that's about two foot long.
|
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Now you throw that sucker in the air.
|
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And it goes flying upwards.
|
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And then it comes falling downward.
|
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And stabs into, hopefully, the lawn.
|
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Yeah.
|
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The lawn darts came with these two rings that were about the size of a hulu.
|
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And you would throw them up in the air.
|
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|
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And the goal was to get your dart inside the hoop.
|
||
|
|
And of course, it's kind of like horseshoes where the closest,
|
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|
|
you know, and you get points and stuff like that.
|
||
|
|
But when you've got this big dart with, you know, it's got a metal tip on it.
|
||
|
|
How long do you think it took for kids to start doing other things with these darts,
|
||
|
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including just throwing it straight up in the air?
|
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Very long.
|
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Not very long at all.
|
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Not very long at all.
|
||
|
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Yeah.
|
||
|
|
There were actually, I mean, there were lots of people that were injured badly.
|
||
|
|
And there were even people killed when a dart came down and went through their hulu.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
And eventually, they made legislation and outlawed it.
|
||
|
|
And if you find lawn darts today, it's almost impossible to hurt yourself with them.
|
||
|
|
There's like foam tip.
|
||
|
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They're no fun.
|
||
|
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The fun is gone.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
In a way.
|
||
|
|
But my point is we have a tool that we use, a game that we use that's every bit is dangerous.
|
||
|
|
And we've been using it longer than we ever used lawn darts.
|
||
|
|
And there is no real push from anywhere to actually make this safer.
|
||
|
|
All people want is the appearance of being safe, rather than actually being safe.
|
||
|
|
And I'm really glad that you brought that up because another problem site for teenagers.
|
||
|
|
And it's been demonstrated Instagram for young Instagram.
|
||
|
|
Because we're in this whole social media environment where.
|
||
|
|
Showing off the cool stuff, you know, having, you know, get to be an influencer.
|
||
|
|
Everybody wants to be an influencer.
|
||
|
|
But what Facebook who owns Instagram found out was that the rates of depression.
|
||
|
|
And anxiety and bullying all went up for young teens 13 to 18 years old.
|
||
|
|
With using the Instagram accounts.
|
||
|
|
So basically why do we why do we permit our kids to have access to Instagram where somebody can say something hurtful and mean.
|
||
|
|
And just totally leaving out the danger of somebody cyber stalking and capturing where you're going.
|
||
|
|
And you know, where you like to hang out and when you're at home and when you're at school.
|
||
|
|
And how you walk from home to school and school to home.
|
||
|
|
We've that out.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
But it's just a team, right?
|
||
|
|
To be an influencer.
|
||
|
|
You have to have people following you, right?
|
||
|
|
And liking your stuff.
|
||
|
|
Which means what happens if somebody doesn't like your stuff.
|
||
|
|
And they start attacking you.
|
||
|
|
The other thing is is when you're looking at all of these other people and the stuff they're posting.
|
||
|
|
People are posting stuff to make themselves look better than somebody else.
|
||
|
|
What does that do to your own sense of yourself when you see everybody that has better everything than you?
|
||
|
|
Find yourself skin.
|
||
|
|
No wonder they're depressed.
|
||
|
|
It's like keeping up with the Joneses for kids.
|
||
|
|
That's a that's a good point, Brady.
|
||
|
|
What are you going to say, Devlin?
|
||
|
|
Just yeah, it just starts up that MV lowers how you think about yourself and what you have.
|
||
|
|
And just makes you want more.
|
||
|
|
And I tell you what you guys, you're not at the age where you need to be thinking about that yet.
|
||
|
|
No, that's something that, you know, we actually didn't have to deal with as much as kids.
|
||
|
|
You know, we talk about, oh, when I was a kid, there was no phone and there was no internet.
|
||
|
|
And, you know, it was 15 and we had an internet and you'd pull up a web page and it would take sometimes five minutes, ten minutes for a picture to load line by line as it scanned down the picture.
|
||
|
|
Yeah, but the other side of that is is that we didn't have somebody else always walking around with us basically that could make us feel bad about ourselves.
|
||
|
|
You know, we left school at school.
|
||
|
|
Now, there was a landline that a phone that hung on the wall that you could talk to somebody.
|
||
|
|
But you couldn't spend all day on there usually because, you know, somebody else might be calling the house and they'd be a busy single if you had the line up.
|
||
|
|
Or if you're lucky, for a while, there was call waiting and it would beep and then you, you know, all I got to go, there's a call from my mom or my dad or whatever.
|
||
|
|
But the good thing about that is we didn't have such an attack on our self-esteem at all times.
|
||
|
|
147.
|
||
|
|
Yeah, that's kind of what our kids are facing and it's rough because comparing yourself to everybody else is a big thing.
|
||
|
|
You know, that's a natural thing.
|
||
|
|
But when we were kids, we actually got a break from that.
|
||
|
|
You know, there was just going outside and playing.
|
||
|
|
There was, you know, I would get a stick and hit weeds and I was, you know, in this whole adventure cast in magic and all that stuff.
|
||
|
|
But nowadays, you know, you just get on your phone or you get on the fortnight or the browser games.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
The fortnight just for fun.
|
||
|
|
I know it's not the fortnight.
|
||
|
|
It's just going to be cool.
|
||
|
|
But we're old.
|
||
|
|
The good goals.
|
||
|
|
But I think that there's a big point there is that our kids do have it a lot harder than us.
|
||
|
|
You know, we look at it and you have all this information at your fingertips, but there's a big dark side.
|
||
|
|
There is a reason why Facebook keeps targeting teens with Instagram even though they know it's harmful for them.
|
||
|
|
It's because we are, oh, excuse me, we are all the product and teens are a very lucrative product.
|
||
|
|
They are.
|
||
|
|
They are.
|
||
|
|
Now, I don't want to bash video games.
|
||
|
|
I just want to make that clear.
|
||
|
|
I'm not bashing video games because actually I want to do a future episode talking about the benefits of video games.
|
||
|
|
But I don't want to get into that on this episode, but I do think talking about the social aspect that goes along with it.
|
||
|
|
Who you're talking to, what you're talking about, how it makes you feel.
|
||
|
|
It's very easy to let things get under your skin for people to bully you, push you around, especially if they want to attack you.
|
||
|
|
I mean, what if you're a good game player?
|
||
|
|
What does everyone want to do?
|
||
|
|
Gang up on you.
|
||
|
|
Gang fast.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
And then, you know, I mean, then how much fun is that?
|
||
|
|
Because now you're going in to play a game and everyone's just smoking you the moment you show up.
|
||
|
|
Yeah, but games are fun.
|
||
|
|
You know, the books that I write are based in the, you know, a digital afterlife, you know, game world.
|
||
|
|
I love games.
|
||
|
|
And I think what we're talking about here is approaching games from a responsible manner and seeing how big of an impact they can have.
|
||
|
|
And that not everybody that we're talking to or hanging out with is, you know, who they say they are.
|
||
|
|
And we're talking to, you know, some younger gentlemen on this podcast, but people get catfished every single day.
|
||
|
|
I've know a couple of people who have met their spouses on video games.
|
||
|
|
World of Warcraft, Final Fantasy, those MMOs, it's a big one.
|
||
|
|
And usually, you know, people can form some very deep connections.
|
||
|
|
And I've seen some beautiful things, but then I've also seen some horrible things.
|
||
|
|
And it just goes to show, you know, you just can't trust everybody based on who they say that they are.
|
||
|
|
Absolutely.
|
||
|
|
It's all about the people, not necessarily about the video game itself.
|
||
|
|
It is.
|
||
|
|
So, the important thing that I would like to point out for kids.
|
||
|
|
Look, whenever you're using the internet, stop to think about what you're doing and ask yourself, should I be doing this?
|
||
|
|
Is this making me feel bad?
|
||
|
|
Let your parents know who you're talking to, or at least who you think you're talking to.
|
||
|
|
Because the thing is, when you have private conversations with people that your parents don't know,
|
||
|
|
you have eliminated any chance of someone stopping something bad from happening.
|
||
|
|
You have taken the guardrails completely off.
|
||
|
|
And I know kids like to have their privacy that, oh, I just want to talk with my friends.
|
||
|
|
Well, but we've just talked about the fact that they may not really be your friends.
|
||
|
|
And when you just exclude any adult that could possibly look at those conversations and you end on stuff that you're missing,
|
||
|
|
you set yourself up for something that could be really bad.
|
||
|
|
Or bullying.
|
||
|
|
Look, who wants to go and tell their parents, hey, mom, I'm being bullied online.
|
||
|
|
But how many, how many kids end up severely depressed because of that?
|
||
|
|
And we've even had news articles where kids have killed themselves because of being bullied online.
|
||
|
|
Yeah, and for anybody out there who might be listening, definitely talk to your parents, talk to somebody that you can trust.
|
||
|
|
But you could also remember that you can step away.
|
||
|
|
Like there's nothing saying that you have to remain plugged in.
|
||
|
|
So there have been times, Devlin is experiencing one right now where he was using his phone when he wasn't supposed to,
|
||
|
|
and doing things he wasn't supposed to be doing with it, and his phone is taken away.
|
||
|
|
That is a mandatory pull off period.
|
||
|
|
He does not have access to electronics.
|
||
|
|
You can do this yourself.
|
||
|
|
It doesn't have to be a punishment.
|
||
|
|
You know, having that access, it's, it's a double-edged sword and it can hurt you very badly.
|
||
|
|
And you can get sucked in, but you don't have to have it as a punishment where your parents take that device away.
|
||
|
|
You can make that call.
|
||
|
|
You can step away from the device.
|
||
|
|
If you're noticing that you get sucked in to certain kinds of content,
|
||
|
|
if you feel like you got to be sneaking around on your phone, you know, it's probably, if you're sneaking around with it,
|
||
|
|
you know that you're not doing something you're supposed to be doing.
|
||
|
|
You can stop that.
|
||
|
|
So I want to say that if you are feeling bad about yourself and you're not really feeling good about your life,
|
||
|
|
the more time you spend on your phone, the worse it's going to get.
|
||
|
|
That goes for me too.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
They call it a doom scroll for a reason.
|
||
|
|
Exactly.
|
||
|
|
Algorithms have been trained to keep you scrolling.
|
||
|
|
There's a camera on your phone.
|
||
|
|
A lot of these very sophisticated social media platforms that we have.
|
||
|
|
They can actually track when your eyes are on the screen, where they're at on the screen,
|
||
|
|
how to keep you engaged, how to keep you scrolling, what makes you comment,
|
||
|
|
what makes you leave that part of the platform and go for something else.
|
||
|
|
And they are fine tuning these algorithms to keep you sucked in.
|
||
|
|
They do it to adults.
|
||
|
|
They do it to kids.
|
||
|
|
We're all very, very valuable.
|
||
|
|
My wife falls down the TikTok wrap all the time.
|
||
|
|
TikTok is one of those things you can hop on.
|
||
|
|
And you're like, let me do this for five minutes.
|
||
|
|
The next thing you know, it's like five hours later.
|
||
|
|
Where did this time go?
|
||
|
|
All right, man.
|
||
|
|
I think that's about a wrap for today.
|
||
|
|
I want to thank you guys for coming on.
|
||
|
|
Before we go though, let's do a pick of the week if we've got one.
|
||
|
|
You guys have anything on your end for a pick of the week.
|
||
|
|
Something cool, fun, doesn't have to be security related.
|
||
|
|
Just anything at all that you think is kind of cool and would like to share.
|
||
|
|
Devon me a few seconds to think of something.
|
||
|
|
Okay.
|
||
|
|
How was your brain?
|
||
|
|
Are you got one?
|
||
|
|
You know, it's a violent game.
|
||
|
|
But I really hope.
|
||
|
|
Elden Ring.
|
||
|
|
If anybody hasn't checked out Elden Ring, it is crazy hard.
|
||
|
|
I spent the first, I started out as a wretch, which is a level one.
|
||
|
|
You're pretty much just in a, in a loincloth.
|
||
|
|
You run out into the world with a stick.
|
||
|
|
I spent like 10 hours at level one because I didn't know how to level up.
|
||
|
|
Got my face smashed in so many times.
|
||
|
|
But I've since, you know, beat the game and moved on to new game plus.
|
||
|
|
And just a lot of fun.
|
||
|
|
Over 50, 60 hours worth of play time so far.
|
||
|
|
Really challenging game that I really enjoyed.
|
||
|
|
Awesome.
|
||
|
|
I have to agree with that.
|
||
|
|
Outstanding.
|
||
|
|
How about you, Isaac?
|
||
|
|
You got anything?
|
||
|
|
Souls is the world of death.
|
||
|
|
Um, the boys.
|
||
|
|
We have, we have started watching.
|
||
|
|
Well, I'm already up the day on the boys, but the boys on Amazon Prime.
|
||
|
|
Definitely, probably not appropriate for younger kids.
|
||
|
|
Yeah, I would agree with that one.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
But a great series.
|
||
|
|
It really is.
|
||
|
|
And for those of you that haven't seen it,
|
||
|
|
it's basically the justice league with really bad superheroes.
|
||
|
|
Like really bad.
|
||
|
|
And heroes is used very lightly.
|
||
|
|
Yes.
|
||
|
|
Yes.
|
||
|
|
So, but it's a good show.
|
||
|
|
A good series.
|
||
|
|
Very creative.
|
||
|
|
Definitely enjoy that.
|
||
|
|
That was going to be my pick of the week two since it just came back.
|
||
|
|
So yeah, season three.
|
||
|
|
The boys.
|
||
|
|
Definitely.
|
||
|
|
Yeah.
|
||
|
|
Definitely worth watching and binging if you're looking for something to get sucked into for a little bit.
|
||
|
|
All right, man.
|
||
|
|
Well, sweet.
|
||
|
|
I guess that's a wrap.
|
||
|
|
Okay.
|
||
|
|
Wrap it.
|
||
|
|
Hey, man.
|
||
|
|
Till next week.
|
||
|
|
I'll talk to you later.
|
||
|
|
Thank you for listening to another episode of The Stuff.
|
||
|
|
Evil Steve doesn't want you to know.
|
||
|
|
I'm your host, Lerking Pryon, getting in your brain and perhaps scratching an itch that you didn't know you had.
|
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|
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Until next time, try to stay safe on the internet and win it out.
|
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|
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Quit clicking, shit.
|
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